A lot of women tell me the same thing, “I want an alpha male.”
When I ask them what that means, they usually describe someone tall, successful, assertive, driven... and somehow also sensitive, wildly in love, and emotionally available.
(Oh—and looks good on Instagram too.)
Here’s the truth:
Most are unknowingly describing the “alpha a-hole.”
Not the "alpha awesome" they actually want.
In Episode 91 of the Dating with Katy podcast, I unpack this:
-Why purpose, integrity, and discipline matter more than flashy ambition.
-The emotional needs strong men have that often go unmet.
-How high-achieving women sometimes accidentally sabotage connection.
-What true fit, fun, feminine energy looks like today.
-The emotional cost of picking the wrong kind of "alpha" — and how to spot it early.
If you’re a woman building a career (or a coach supporting ambitious women), this episode will help you see dating in a whole new way: grounded, powerful, and way more aligned.
Listen here:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ThgIDfYi8I.
And if you're ready for a real, lasting connection with a high-caliber partner, let's talk.
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