If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How do I show interest without looking desperate?” or “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men?” — this episode of Dating with Katy is for you.
Because sometimes, it takes a grounded, emotionally intelligent man to help women truly understand what secure masculine energy is looking for.
That’s why I sat down with Chris Liehmann, a powerful polarity and relationship coach who works with women on how to stop chasing love—and start receiving it with confidence.
Feminine Energy Isn’t About Being Passive—It’s About Being Present
So many women today (especially high-achieving ones) are living in their masculine energy all day long—making decisions, managing people, leading families. But then they bring that same energy into dating… and wonder why men either shut down or disappear. To attract a deeply grounded, masculine man, you don’t need to become less of yourself—you need to become more of your true self.
How to Show Interest Without Chasing
So many women ask me, “How can I let him know I’m interested without looking desperate?”
Chris answered it beautifully:
“You express your truth... and then you give him space to lead.”
You don’t need to drop hints, over-perform, or send three follow-up texts. Instead:
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Speak clearly about what you desire
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Honor your own standards
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Let him rise to meet you—or fall away
It’s about holding your worth, not proving it.
Why Boss Babes Struggle in Love
That doesn’t mean women don’t want to contribute. It means they want to receive, rest, and be poured into too. But that starts with allowing yourself to slow down, get back into your body, and let go of the control that’s kept you safe—but also stuck.
Ultimatums, Boundaries & What Actually Works
A key moment in the episode was our talk on boundaries versus ultimatums.
Chris said:
“Don’t give ultimatums. Inform him. Then let your actions match your standards.”
You’re not forcing a man to choose you. You’re showing him what you choose—and leaving the door open if he’s ready to meet you there.
If you’ve been operating in survival mode, trying to prove you’re “good enough” for a man to stay—this is your sign to pause, recalibrate, and receive.
🎧Watch to the full episode now: Ep 113 – Women: Do This NOW to Find Real Love (with Chris Liehmann)
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