If you’ve ever felt frustrated trying to understand what he’s thinking—or confused about why she’s feeling a certain way—this episode is for you. In Part 2 of my conversation with Pastor Keith Craft, we go even deeper into the real talk about relationships, emotional needs, finances, and sex.
This episode was so full of wisdom, I had to take a breath after we hit "stop" on the recording. As someone who works with high-achieving women and successful men who are still trying to get relationships right, this one hit differently.
When Mickey Mouse Pancakes Matter
One of my favorite moments was when Pastor Keith talked about how his wife used to make Mickey Mouse pancakes for their kids. It wasn’t about the pancakes—it was about being seen.
I had to pause and just feel that for a second. Because let’s be honest: so many women just want to be noticed. Not for doing everything. Not for holding everything together. But for how much heart they pour into the smallest things.
The Valet Story That Changed My Marriage
Keith told this story about forgetting his wallet on a night out and asking his wife Sheila for a card. No big deal, right? But what came out of that moment floored me:
“I didn’t know it made you feel that way... I just want you to feel taken care of.”
You guys—I felt that. Because I’ve BEEN there. Wanting to feel held, provided for, secure—not because I can’t take care of myself (I absolutely can), but because I want my man to want to.
This was one of those powerful reminders that love is in the energy behind the actions. And when a man has emotional intelligence—when he seeks to understand before defending himself—that’s where safety is built.
Let’s Talk Money, Baby
You know I don’t shy away from hard conversations—and finances are one of the biggest killers of connection. Pastor Keith broke down his 70/10/10/10 philosophy (putting God first, giving over and above, saving, investing, and living on 70%).
It challenged me. Jim and I are in a blended marriage with two careers, past lives, and a future we’re building together. Having that financial alignment is EVERYTHING. If you’re dating and not talking money, you’re flying blind.
And to the ladies: don’t ignore red flags. If a man isn’t financially stable—no matter how sweet or spiritual he is—it will become a weight in your relationship.
Let it be this:
You are allowed to have standards. You are worthy of being adored. And the love you’re looking for is possible.
Whether you’re just starting out, starting over, or still believing for your person—please don’t settle. Don’t shrink. Don’t water down your worth to fit someone’s comfort zone.
🎧 Watch to Ep 108- What Men Want vs. What Women Want in a Relationship – Part 2
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